Taking Care of Your self Whereas Homeschooling


Homeschooling your children and taking good care of your self aren’t mutually unique.

I’ve been there, mates. I’ve been the excited, new homeschool mama who researches every thing and throws herself into all of the homeschooling issues. I’ve been the mama whose physique has shut down a number of instances as a result of I ignored warning indicators. I’ve been the mama juggling kiddos with main well being points, moving, job adjustments, and extra. Identical to so lots of you.

Taking good care of you isn’t egocentric. Please write this down and repeat it all of the livelong day. Your psychological, bodily, emotional, and non secular well being aren’t secondary to educating math, conjugating verbs in Spanish, studying aloud, or doing an artwork challenge. They’re extra essential.

There, I mentioned it. I am saying this to myself too. I’m saying it as I sit right here with three teenagers who’re very impartial however nonetheless want steerage and snacks (so many snacks). I’m saying it to my youthful self as a result of, such as you, I would like copious quantities of grace.

Taking Care of Yourself While Homeschooling.

Why Do We Put Our Well being Final?

A few years in the past, I used to be main a workshop for a small group of homeschooling mothers. We had been sitting in a circle in a big convention room on uncomfortable chairs and poor lighting. Everybody had their journals and colourful pens. I had chocolate to cross round as a result of that is what I do.

We began discussing how homeschooling can take a toll on our well being if we’re not cautious. A soft-spoken girl was sitting to my left. I seen her head was down. She immediately seemed up and mentioned, ” I do not even know what tv reveals I like anymore. I do not even know what to look at. I’ve spent a lot time giving and giving to my children. I do not know what to do.”

My coronary heart sunk. The opposite mamas within the circle nodded as if to say, “Yeah, we have been there too.” I put my arm round her and handed her a whole chocolate bar. She wanted it. She deserved it. And when she tried to refuse it and was nervous about being egocentric, I ended her, kindly, and informed her to let me present it to her. I let her comprehend it was okay to let her guard down on this circle and simply breathe.

This incident has stayed with me as I proceed to discover my self-care path and as I communicate up about it via my writing, podcasts, Instagram posts, and on a regular basis conversations.

Why are we placing our well being final? I requested my group this query and the highest three solutions had been:

Lack of alone time

Spoiler alert! Simply because we homeschool our children doesn’t suggest we do not want (or love) alone time. Alone time is not only for introverts both. I am an extrovert and I completely want plenty of alone time. Additionally, 5 minutes alone within the rest room would not depend.

How and when you discover your alone time is as much as you. You should talk your must your loved ones. Write it down on the household calendar. Write it in your planner. Toss the guilt out of the window and do not let it come seeping again in.

Alone time shouldn’t be for homeschool planning or studying books about homeschooling. Am I pushing this too far? Perhaps. Simply go together with it.

Lack of power

If we’re not caring for ourselves we in all probability do not have plenty of power. After we’re always pouring out our power to everybody else on a regular basis, we’re tapped out.

Please do not take this to imply that you simply can’t and should not assist others. As a life-long people-pleaser and “helper”, one in every of my largest joys in life is giving to others in quite a lot of methods. However, I’ve additionally come to comprehend that overextending myself and by no means saying “no” is detrimental to my well being on all ranges.

Attempting to do every thing ourselves

Elevate your hand in case your means is at all times the finest means? I am standing right here with each of my fingers waving excessive over my head.

Ah, to at all times need to do all of the homeschool issues and do them the most effective and ensure the home is clear, that the children are not in pajamas at 3:42 pm, and that dinner is at all times selfmade.

A few of you’re superior about asking for assist and have a system in place. And for that, I applaud you. For the remainder of us, now’s the time to place down our waving fingers and ask for a hand (or 10). We’re not meant to hold every thing on our personal.

Our well being can’t preserve taking a again seat to homeschooling. We will be aware and deal with ourselves and homeschool and take breaks when wanted.  There shall be seasons of life when that is laborious to do. And that leads me to the subsequent part…

How We Can Put Ourselves First?

I want I may wave a magic wand and we might all simply do that with ease. However the reality is, I have no idea the place you’re in your homeschool journey. I have no idea if in case you have a gaggle of little ones, a posse of teens, or a mixture of the 2. I do not know if you happen to work outdoors the home, have a companion or are a single dad or mum, and I have no idea all the most effective methods that you could put your self and your well being again on the high of the listing.

I simply know that it has to occur and that the longer you push it off, the more durable it’ll turn out to be to do, and the more durable it turns into to do, the extra doubtless you’ll burn out. Shortly.

One thing that has helped me the previous two years is finding my FLOW. Small habits and reminders and practices that I can weave into my days and weeks and months to make sure that all areas of my well being are being cared for not directly. And, I’ve acquired to say, it is made an enormous distinction. So, what does following your FLOW appear to be? It is easy!

  • Feed your physique in a means that honors your distinctive self.
  • Love your self and lean into your season of life.
  • Personal your time and house. Find time for sleep, transfer your physique, and have enjoyable. Create areas of magnificence in your environment.
  • Weed out what’s not working, welcome the brand new, and benefit from the marvel.

Everybody’s FLOW shall be completely different and that’s the fantastic thing about it. You are price it, pal. Your price feeling rested and vibrant whereas rocking your homeschool duties. Modeling well being and wellness is essential to your youngsters to see and to know.

So, seize your journal and favourite cuppa one thing heat and yummy and get flowing. I would like to know the way this resonates with you.


Our names are Fareedah and Kamilah Amoo. We are seven and five year’s old sisters and live in Ontario, Canada, with our parents and little brother, Awad. We love writing stories, painting on canva, coding, reading books, and enjoying arts and crafts. Our goal is to motivate every child worldwide to read more books.

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